Saturday, January 21, 2017

The Funny Thing About University: Friends Change

I never talk about my personal, like, really really really personal life that is school.

Even though I'm a realist, I don't talk about the most real thing in my life: SCHOOL

I added the words. Ain't that font cool? :D
It's not my font but it's cool as ish.
Yeah.

The funny thing about university...and I hate to sound real and ish but...you don't get to keep the same friends you had in your freshman year, first semester.

So let's break it down and let me reassure you that it's going to be okay:


At the first semester, you're all new, and you start sticking together and stuff...you make lots of cool new friends...

The second semester, you're still friends with that first group of friends...

Then sophomore year and...you start to divide up because your interests start changing. And then suddenly you make friends outside of your "first semester" friends. Which is okay because you're still in contact with your "first semester" friends.

But the second semester, you suddenly find yourself gradually leaning toward those you see in class rather than those you see outside class only.

Everyone gets busy with their own classes and they don't see each other as often...

Junior year, you're still friendly with your first group of university friends but you don't hang out as much because they aren't taking the same classes as you.

Yeah that happens.

And it's okay.

But I think it's kinda the funny (not laughable) part of university life.

Like you have this whole group of friends in the beginning and suddenly you end up with two or three or four really close ones FROM CLASS.

If you're in a club it MIGHT be different...only if your first group of friends are in the same club as you and you go to every club meeting.

But guys, don't expect to be friends with your first group of friends through all four years of university ish UNLESS you see each other in class and you take the same classes and stuff.

But also remember guys, you will make friends who are interested in the same stuff that you're interested in and you can actually talk about those stuff without having to give them a Introduction 101 every time you see them.

So it's totally fine that you'll grow apart and by the time the four years is over you might not ever talk to them again because you're interests are just too different and, you didn't really get along with them much anyway.

Tough life, life is.

But you have tough skin, you do :P

Cuz you are alligators!

See ya later, alligators! :D

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